have your cross to bear

have your cross to bear

suffer the troubles that life brings

The reference here is to Jesus (or Simon of Cyrene) carrying the Cross to Calvary before the Crucifixion. The image is also used metaphorically in the New Testament (for example, in Matthew 10 : 38 : And he that taketh not his cross and followeth after me is not worthy of me).


at cross purposes

misunderstanding or having different aims from one another

cross as two sticks

very annoyed or grumpy - British informal

This expression is a play on the two senses of cross, firstly 'bad-tempered' and secondly intersecting.

cross your fingers = keep your fingers crossed

hope that your plans will be successful

trust in good luck

The gesture of putting your index and middle fingers across each other as a sign of hoping for good luck is a scaled-down version of the Christian one of making the sign of the Cross with your whole hand and arm as a request for divine protection. It is also superstitiously employed when telling a deliberate lie with the idea of warding off the evil that might be expected to befall a liar.

1998 - Spectator - Since resources were limited the only hope the clients had was to hang in there, fingers crossed.

cross the floor

join the opposing side in Parliament – British

The floor of the House of Commons is the open space separating members of the Government and Opposition parties who sit on benches facing each other across it.

cross my heart

used to emphasize the truthfulness and sincerity of what you are saying or promising – informal

The full version of this expression is
cross my heart and hope to die and is sometimes reinforced by making a sign of the Cross over your chest.

cross his palm with silver

pay someone for a favour or service – often humorous

Crossing someone's palm with silver was originally connected with the telling of fortunes when the client would literally trace out the sign of a cross on the hand of the fortune-teller with a silver coin.

cross the Rubicon

take an irrevocable step

The Rubicon was a small river in north-east Italy which in the first century BC marked the boundary of Italy proper with the province of Cisalpine Gaul. By taking his army across the Rubicon into Italy in 49 BC, Julius Caesar broke the law forbidding a general to lead an army out of his own province and so committed himself to war against the Senate and Pompey.

cross swords

have an argument or dispute

Originally, this expression had the literal sense of fight a duel.

get your wires crossed = get your lines crossed

have a misunderstanding.

Wires being crossed originally referred to a faulty telephone connection (a crossed line) which resulted in another call or calls being heard.

be caught in the crossfire

suffer damage or harm inadvertently as the result of the conflict between two other people or groups.

The literal sense of the phrase, in a military context, is
be trapped (and possibly killed) by being between two opposing sides who are shooting at each other .

1998 - New Scientist - This suggested that the corneal cells are innocent victims caught in the crossfire as T cells fight the viral infection.

at a crossroads = at the crossroads

at a critical point when decisions with far-reaching consequences must be made

dirty work at the crossroads

illicit or underhand dealing – humorous

This expression is recorded from the early 20th century and may reflect the fact that crossroads, the traditional burial site for people who had committed suicide, were once viewed as sinister places.

1914 - P. G. Wodehouse - The Man Upstairs – A conviction began to steal over him that some game was afoot which he did not understand that - in a word - there was dirty work at the crossroads.

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