He or She or They

He or She or They : Grammar and Spelling Tips

People are increasingly using the plural pronoun
they to refer to one person if they do not know whether that person is male or female. Until quite recently, he was generally used to refer to a person of either sex as in: Every child needs to know that he is loved. But nowadays many people feel that such a use is sexist.

He or she is possible, but is rather awkward.
They is generally accepted in sentences using words such as someone or anyone.


• Anyone can join if they are a resident.

More people object to
they being used after a single noun as in:

• Ask a friend if they can help.

Interestingly, use of
they in this way is not a modern invention. It was first recorded in the 16th century.

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