Here is List of The Top 200 Secrets of Success and the Pillars of Self-Mastery suggested by Robin S. Sharma who is The Author of the best seller The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari.
141. Some men see things as they are and say "why?" I dream of things that never were and
say "why not?" George Bernard Shaw
142. Use these strategies to improve the quality of your mind-calming meditation: 1. Practice
meditation at the same time each day and in the same place so that your mind becomes
accustomed to entering the desired serene state as soon as you enter the peaceful place. 2.
The early morning is undoubtedly the most powerful time to meditate. Indian yogis
believe that the pre-dawn time has almost magical qualities which aid in achieving the
super-peaceful state so many meditators attempt to attain. 3. Before you start, command
your mind to be quiet by using affirmations such as "I will be focused and very calm
now." 4. If thoughts do enter, do not force them out but simply let them pass like clouds
making way for the beautiful blue sky. Picture that your mind is like a still lake without
even a ripple. 5. Sit for ten minutes at first and then increase the time every few sittings.
After a month or two, you will not be interrupted by any pressing thoughts and will
surely feel a sense of peace that you have never felt before.
143. Forge and foster great friendships as such relationships are essential for maintaining a
healthy and successful life. Find a few minutes every day to jot down some warm wishes
to an old friend or to place a telephone call to someone you have not had a chance to
speak to for a while. Show compassion and sincere consideration for all your friends and
watch the results which follow. Develop long lasting friendships by being a good friend.
Also, make it a priority to seek out new friends no matter how many you may be
fortunate enough to have. This is one of life's greatest joys which many of us miss.
144. Purchase a cassette or CD of Miles Davis's Kind Of Blue. It is a uniquely soothing
compilation that will refresh and soothe you after a challenging and productive day.
Music such as this is good for the soul.
145. Drown your appetite by drinking more water - ten glasses a day is ideal. It revitalizes the
system and purifies the body. Also, get into the habit of eating soups and more complex
carbohydrates such as rice, potatoes and pasta which feed your hunger with far less
calories than other less healthy foods. You truly are what you eat and must ensure that
your diet is designed to maximize your energy and mental clarity.
146. Develop the essential habit of punctuality for it is most important for high success.
Punctuality reflects discipline and a proper regard for others. Without it, even the most
sophisticated person appears slightly offensive. Do not be early and certainly never be
late. Budget your time and, should you arrive early, take a walk or simply relax for a few
moments to ensure that you arrive on time as requested. You will be appreciated and
welcomed always if you cultivate this important quality that appears so rarely these days.
147. The telephone is there for your convenience, not for the convenience of others who are
attempting to contact you. If you are busy with a task, do not answer the phone or have
someone answer the call so that you may return it at a more suitable time. Do not let such
interruptions waste your time. Most phone calls are not important and last far too long
anyway. Over the course of the average American's lifetime, she will spend two years
unsuccessfully returning phone calls. There are so many important and fun things to do in
life. The challenge is to respect precious time so that we can achieve a fuller, more
148. Start your day off well. Before you get out of bed each morning, say a prayer or repeat
your personal affirmation giving thanks for the day and all the positive things you will
see and achieve. Make a conscious decision to make this the best day of your life and
meet with pleasure, success and fun. If you believe it, it will most certainly happen. A
timeless secret for lifelong success is to live each day as if it were your last.
149. Confide in your partner. This will strengthen the relationship and allow you both to grow
at the same pace. It is also a wonderful tonic to share important or otherwise troubling
things with the person you are closest to.
150. Push yourself just a little harder and a little farther each day. Winners on the playing field
of life push the envelope of their potential daily. Do the thing you fear and the death of
fear is certain. Winners do the things that less developed people don't like doing even
though they also might not enjoy doing them. This is what strength of character and
courage is all about. Tackle your weaknesses. Do the thing that you have consistently put
off. Write that thank you note or letter that you have neglected for so long. Exercise your
discipline muscles and they will rise to the occasion by filling your day with more
satisfaction, more effectiveness and far more energy.